I have been using the Asian date to try to find my soulmate what i really got was a computer full of trojans and malware and completely hacked.i went there because i was tired of all the fake dating crap that was out there I was seeing a woman named yi fang .well i spent $100.00 on chatting with her online and did not even talk with her i complained over and over to the site's administration to know avail the woman or the site sent one message to me as if it was from her and she had promised to get off the site .it never happened .
this site took advantage of me and stole money from me and left my computer a wreck.it is not at all how it seems and companies like this should not be allowed to continue business on the internet. it is the devil of the internet and something needs to be done about them .i believe the woman never existed and that most or all are just a complete fraud and is doing nothing but stealing and emotionally taking advantage of men searching for love
Asian Date or Asian Beauties claims to be a dating site that is full of beautiful Chinese and Asian women seeking true marriage partners and seems mostly leaning toward western and American men with this narrative about viewing us as being more caring and romantic like Jack in the "Titanic" movie. Oh yeah, and these poor "Left Over Women" are just desperately seeking a good man!
You found out real fast that the money it costs for all the provocative chats, letters, and text messages far surpasses the reality of who these women really are and what a fool the site will make of you! The site design is dazzling for a new comer who had probably been recently divorced or is sick and tired of the bullshit from self centered American women and Asian Date knows exactly how to appeal to the bruised ego of a male who is sincerely looking for a trustworthy woman without having to go out to the bars or boring socials to find one.
You will find after being there a while that things quickly don't add up. Profiles that are online all day and night long ( are these bitches on meth?) Lies about wanting badly to come and see you in America only to tell you "Daddy just had a heart attack can't make it" "I got some sort of a rash" "My employer won't let me go for the time I had scheduled" " I didn't get my Visa like I thought I would" and it will happen over and over again like clockwork too while you're spending thousands!
They must use psychological tactics to pull at your heart strings and make you feel guilty or that you should care because they will lie, cheat steal, and break your heart while destroying your faith in women at the same time. Don't get involved in this site you will regret it! I know after being stupid enough to be a member for 3 years continually trying to convince myself there was an answer in a rabbit hole designed to suck your money!
The only good reviews you will find are no doubt posted by site employees working for Asian Date or whatever Cupid network dating site they own which are plenty! You wonder why they have no success stories posted and would they even be true if there were? Save yourself the anguish!
Guys, i guess you could say that i'm probably one of the most gullible, if not the most naive man ever put on this planet because of all the fraudulent women with whom i spared no expense communicating with on asiandate.com who successfully managed to seduce me into believing that i had a genuine shot at a real relationship with them. Unfortunately for me, the gorgeous young asian beauties on that website who entised me into thinking that i had a real chance with any of them, were just doing a job they were being paid to do by asiandate.com and affiliates Sub-contractors). The entire time i was a paid member of asiandate.com i never wanted to believe i was being lied to or deceived by anyone. I kept wanting to believe that the women i chatted with for hours on there were real because they made me feel like i was a god to them, constantly writing letters to me, sending me beautiful photographs, sending me their cute little messages addressed specifically to me using my first name, messages that would magically appear on the right-hand side of my computer screen whenever they knew i was online.
I kept buying more and more credits to the tune of $9,749.68 us dollars on my paypal account during 8 months i was a member! omg, what a complete fool i was!! yes, you read it right. No, i'm not kidding you. From april 26th, 2016 The first day i joined asiandate.com) until december 25th, 2016 Christmas day, when i finally came to my senses and realized asiandate.com is a total scam) i spent a grand total of $9,749.68 in the hopes i would eventually meet one of those gorgeous young asian women in person from asiandate.com. But instead, all i got for my money was severe emotional heartbreak along with numerous wasted hours upon hours of my precious time.
Warning: asiandate.com can be extremely addictive! i would spend most of my days and nights sitting in front of my computer searching through an average of 25 to 50 women's profiles, saving the ones i thought were the best in my "favorites" folder. At the end of 8 months, i had accumulated a whopping 1,904 profiles in my "favorites" folder. And not a single one of those 1,904 profiles that i had accumulated in my "favorites" folder was ever deleted or removed by either the lady herself nor asiandate! red flag!!!
During my 8 months as a paying member on asiandate.com i focused in on 6 specific asian women. Some women would send me multiple letters almost daily. One lady actually sent me 39 letters in one day! she sent me well over 120 letters total, and silly me, i paid to open every single one of them thinking she was the women for me. Of course, each letter costs ten credits Approximately $8 dollars each letter) to open and read. Each letter would start out addressing me by my first name, followed by one or two short paragraphs of meaninglyless generic fluff that could have been written to any guy. Most letters included a free photograph to open, but many times the photos weren't of the same woman Another red flag!!!).
Asiandate.com makes it very clear in their membership "terms and conditions" that contact information exchange is only allowed through their "call me" service, which is very expensive at a minimum cost of 100 credits About $80 for a very short 10-minute phone call using an interpretor). So i scheduled phone calls with each of the 6 women i focused on using the "call me" service offered by asiandate.com to exchange our phone numbers and email addresses. Everytime i tried to call them from my phone to their phone, either they wouldn't answer or the number they gave me would be invalid or a non-working number! same with their email addresses. I would send them an email message, but never receive any emails from any of them! whenever i asked them to try calling or emailing me, they claimed to try calling me, but my phone would never ring and i would never receive any emails either Yet another red flag!!!).
I would try to get them to send me a photograph of themselves holding up a white piece of paper with my name written on it to prove to me that i was actually dealing with the same exact woman i saw in her profile photos. And to my surprise, 3 out of six of the women i asked actually did this! but to my disappointment, i could tell that two of the photos were doctored up and fake, probably using photoshop, while the third was actually real but the woman's face did not look like the same woman in her profile photos because her nose and ears were different Yet one more red flag!!!).
So why am i spending my precious time posting this review of asiandate.com here on Outscam ??? Obviously i'm the first to admit that i'm an idiot and a fool for spending $9,749.68 united states currency on this ripoff dating site and i merely want to try to spread the word around that asiandate.com is in the business to deceive lonely men like me into believing we have a real shot at a genuine relationship with asian women. I fell for it. Hopefully my experience will discourage other lonely men from falling for this fraudulent company. I'm not making any of this up. It's such a sad world we live in when companies like asiandate.com have no conscience. I'm sure all of the beautiful asian women shown on their website are only paid models, and are not actual women searching for love and relationships. All of the profiles on asiandate never get deleted! Red flag!!!) they are all fake profiles designed to look convincingly real.
Two more things worth mentioning. Whenever i tried the live video-chat feature with some of the ladies because i wanted to see them on their web-cams, i noticed many of the live web-cam videos i saw would actually "loop" after about ten minutes or so, showing me the exact same video footage as before! i knew it wasn't a "live" web-cam whenever i would ask the lady to do something and she wouldn't do it. Other ladies who actually did appear to be on a "live" web-cam did not look anything like their profile photos. And some ladies had their live web-cam aimed down at their b***s so i couldn't see their face, and would not show me their face even when i asked them numerous times. Also, whenever i complained about this Or anything else) to asiandate customer service, the customer service agent would always act like they genuinely cared about me, even sending me follow up messages telling me they would resolve any problem i was having, claiming that every girl posted on their website has been thoroughly checked out and is real, not fake. What a joke! believe me when i tell you, asiandate is a complete scam. You will never ever meet any of the gorgeous women posted on asiandate.com but you will certainly lose your money, your time and your heart!
I heard that paypal, visa and mastercard all got together and boycotted wiki-leaks, making it impossible for anyone to donate money to wiki-leaks, effectively cutting off their funding source. Seems to me that if more guys like me were to collaborate and get a petition of maybe one-hundred-thousand signatures signed up and delivered it to the attorney general of the united states, maybe the attorney general could pressure paypal, visa and mastercard to boycott payment services to asiandate.com which should effectively cut off a major source of funding to this fraudulent operation???
I certainly hope this first-hand experience and honest review of asiandate helps prevent others from making such a mistake as i have made. Asiandate.com is fraudulent and cruel to lonely men looking for companionship.
I have been on this site more than a year. There are many fake accounts used to make customers spend more money on the site by reading mail or chatting. They lure people by sendin private pictures, which are actually belong to 3r parties. I can give some examples. ID: 1437231 account send instagram pictures of wendy yu as her own pictures. ID: 1392683 sends korean model named yeyong pictures as if her own picture. ID: 1524612 sends pictures from chinese nude picture sites.
All can be verified by revers picure search on google. 3 cases just an example of many fake accounts on this site. When I complain about this to site management, they send me mail saying all cases must be verified by link. And there is no wrong with sending porn site pictures. But they ignore the fact that it is cheating to send 3rd party picture as if her own. I suspect most of the fake accounts are paid agents of the site to increase their revenue. They have other way of scamming people as well, but this is the easily proofable one.
By the time of writing this letter I discoverd that reverse search of wendy yu pictures were removed but her instagram pictures still in there. This site also cover this kind of evidance to clear their name. They also use mail flood method to generate more revenue from their customers. I have more than 75K emails in my inbox to read. One account ID: 1480192 sent me 18K+ letters, which I never responded.
Considering each mail cost 10 credit and 20 credit costs 16$, appearently she spend 288K $ which is highly impossible. There are many such as accounts which it will take time to compile reqired data. It is obvious this is scam done by this infamous site.
I got on asiandate.com in 2014 looking for a life mate and wife. As i am 61 and never been married, but i have had some history with asian people, i thought this was great. But many times i became very frustrated because all the girls seem to want to do is chat and write letters, even though so many kept promising me love, sex, and even material riches.
Most would not even answer my questions and concerns, stuff that will be very important for our future life together, just ignoring what i was saying and asking. And everytime i find one that i am extremely attracted to, and tell them to come over here and prove what they say to me, they either stop writing or give me excuses.
They tell me they don't have a visa, they can't speak english good enough, their parents are sick, they are very busy with their business, even though they claim they already have either millions or billions, blah blah. And this is after they already say they will come over here and marry me, buy a house, start a business here, etc. I have given so many "girls" chance after chance with no results.
Over and over the same girls keep saying the same things in chat like robots, even though you push the block button they keep popping back in a short time. They keep sending the same letters many times. There are some "girls" who will send me letters that have been sending them to me since 2015, and they still have the same exact profile pictures without updating them.
I have written emails to the support department many times, and got on live support speaking to employees making complaints many times. But all i get from the employees is either excuses or evasive stupid replies, or they will not even answer me. Me and the other men who get on that site have to pay for everything, all the letters to and from the "ladies" and all the chat sessions.
I complained many times and asked why do i have to pay for all the contacts when so many of the chinese "ladies" claim to be so super wealthy. Well i finally found out by looking here on Scamion recently and seen that there are other men making complaints and have had the same bad experiences that i have had. I also checked on youtube and seen videos there of the many scams being committed by this and similar dating sites.
The live support employees have russian sounding names. I see it now that what others here have said is the truth. They have taken pictures of a lot of young sexy girls, but the website has their employees do the letter writing and the chatting in an elaborate hoax and scam making men think they are talking and writing with the girls in the pictures. This is a lie and a total scam. This is why men cannot find a real woman on this website.
There are too many instances and things that have happened on this phony site that i cannot even recall them all. Every single man that has had these same experiences i have had should do as i am doing, file complaints here on this site, and also go to the website of the federal trade commission and file complaints there.
In 2014 the f.T.C. Took its first law enforcement action against a similar site such as this one that i am making this complaint against, and this asiandate site is just like the one that f.T.C. Took action against, they had multiple websites using fake profiles and cheating men out of their money. Well, the federal trade commission fined that other site for more than 616,000 u.S. Dollars and made them pay that in redress, and also prohibits them from using fake computer-generated profiles that were tricking men.
The company that is behind this asiandate.com needs for this to happen to them also, and if enough men will make the complaints, we can see justice happen and get our money back. The company which goes by different names seems to have their scam offshore offices in malta, seemingly thinking they are untouchable out there. I gave the malta address in the company address part, but they supposedly have a office here in the united states. ---> dating gateways llc, 589 8th ave., 23rd floor, new york, n.Y. 10018.
Profile PDFs: 179Mb (Inividual ladies profiles (226 No. of approx. 521 downloaded). These are for reference to prove the claimed location / city of the lady members, their member ID and the small images of photos on the profile page, available for downloading by male members and are in the Selected Images zip file.
I was a male member of this site for several months and a subscribing member for about 3 months. I subscribed because I believed ladies contacting me were real. In all I have spent several hundred NZ dollars at AsianDate. I also had a subscription at a "sister" site ChinaLove.com and group losses are estimated at a little over NZD1000.
Because I was receiving so many letters of interest letters from many ladies, I updated my profile to provide more information about me; also subtly containing ways to contact me without them having to pay 10 "Credits" each time. In my replies to ladies, I pointed out how to identify the contact details. At no time did any lady I replied to, contact me other than via the AsianDate website. Several ladies had sent me over 500 emails, many over 100 and a lot over 20. I believed these ladies were genuinely trying to connect with me. 1 "Credit" is approximately NZD1.00.
At no time did I receive a reply that was sensible and clearly in response to questions I asked or gave information about me. One of the ladies I exchanged several emails with had a very distinctive dress. Another lady contacting me also was wearing an identical dress. By this time, I was becoming suspicious because not one person had responded to me as I had requested. The identical dress issue raised my level of awareness and I began noticing other similarities and noted them. These similarities were becoming so common, I downloaded many images from ladies that had contacted me; also I saved the profile in PDF format. Having this data made it relatively straightforward to peruse many images in a reasonably short time and I observed many suspicious profile photos. I am unsure about whther the "ladies" I was in contact with are real or merely models and system generated messages.
I wrote a letter of complaint to AsianDate on 23 April, stating my concerns and demanding a refund of all money I had paid to them. I sent images to demonstrate the repetative objects and pointed out the great distance between the ladies' stated home city. I also raised the matter of receiving hundreds of emails from some ladies but I had not replied. I stated a belief the letters were system generated and queried the high cost to a lady sending me over 500 messages (over 5000 NZ dollars).
There were a series of exchanges between AsianDate Support and I. The person repsonding admitted because they have so many members to manage, they use "an agency" and the items I had told them I observed several times may have been provided to help the ladies look their best. I replied and sent specimen images and also the PDF analysis summary of selected repeat objects (about 40% of those observed) so they could understand my concerns. They also admitted some ladies are able to commnicate with men for nil cost. Other issues I had raised were identical approach letters from ladies, including "typos". They at first expressed concern that this had happened but later replied that ladies can access certain standard approach letters and send to me based on parameters such as age, country and the like. They declared the specimen messages contained errors and they would tell their IT people about this. I can send the draft copies of the letters I emailed to AsianDate support people. I have not attached nor uploaded these to Mega but would forward them if I am asked. Images I sent to them were stripped of identifying lady member data and were grouped by common occurrence.
I believe AsianDate and possible their "sister" sites operating on the same revenue model are a scam. I found many such alegations at several internet sites dealing with dating scams. My reasons for believing this are the unusual replies from ladies and not being able to progress communications but principally the many suspicious photos and multiple use of "props". I have downloaded at toal of 2,135 images and 521 profiles. The uploaded files referenced at the beginning illustrate 35 No. repetitions of supicious items e.g. 45 ladies observed in the same bathtub, 24 ladies sitting on the same "throne"-like chair when 15 were from Mumbai and 9 from New Delhi (>1400 km apart). I suspect there are some legitimate female members but I supect there are many photo-models.
The images have been scanned manually, "by eye". Several are grouped because of identical backgrounds and are therefore high probability the same. A professional analysis using AI Scanning Technology would no doubt reveal far more than I have managed to identify. I have not for example grouped images of certain outdoor environments e.g. distinctive "garage doors", paving, trees and the like. The anlysis I did has taken well over 100 hours to do and there may of course be some errors in judgement. I believe there is much evidence of "photoshop" type editing, colour changes and even persons suspected as being superimposed into a background. Digital analysis will reveal much.
My suspicions are high because AsianDate did not specifically answer or respond to my questions. If I am greatly mistaken, this is the biggest blunder of my life. But I have shared my "evidence" with others and asked for their objective opinions. Without exception, they were supportive of my suspicions
The reason I am reporting this here, today is I have read so many other people reporting many thousands of dollars wasted at AsianDate. My losses compared to these people are quite small. I realised quite quickly that things were not right. One man I have been in contact with has lost over USD5000. Some reported losses are far higher.
I welcome a response and request for further information. I have only uploaded the more obvious files. Some other events are lower frequency and some profiles are untainted; hence I believe it possible some lady members are legitimate.
Why don't Interpol raid them and close them down??
I've been a member of AsianDate for about 5 months (and spent several hundreds of dollars). I have been suspicious about them for some time as I spotted the absurdly high number of emails, presumably costing ladies 10 credits each to send and groaned each time I opened a reply to my email - just a few short lines, even after appealing to them to reply to my message with a considered reply, the next day. All to no avail.
I now have proof that it is a scam as I received two letters from two different ladies with the EXACT same wording INCLUDING the same "typo" error. I have taken a snapshot of these and will happily offer them to someone that knows how to get a criminal investigation going. This is worse than disgusting what they are doing. They need to be closed down, compelled to reimburse us victims and those responsible need to reflect on their crime in solitary confinement for several years.
If you have only recently joined, I urge you to walk-away and accept you too were a victim of this heinous criminal activity.
Beware of AsianDate.com because they are scamming people by taking their money and not delivering what they say they will. They ask for your charge card in case you want to use parts of their service that require payment but they charged my credit right off the bat and I never even got to use the credits they charged me for because I was still accessing only the FREE areas and services of the website and now they won't refund my money and they give me the run around every time I try and get a refund pretending like they don't know what I'm talking about and trying start each attempt at a getting refund as a brand new issue. Recommend checking out the asiandatereviews website for additional evidence of their scamming activities
Example of just one of my customer service chats with the company is below! AsianDate Live Support Thanks for contacting Asianbeauties Live Support. Please let me know how I can help… Marshall kilpatrick I was just checking with you to find out why you haven't refund my credits yet After all you told me you weren't scammers AsianDate Live Support Hello there! My name is Jessica and I'll be helping you today. I would appreciate it if you would rate my assistance at the end of this Live Support session by copying and pasting the following link into the address bar of your browser: https://www.nicereply.com/it-strategy.livesupport/26129859 AsianDate Live Support Let me have a look for you Sir AsianDate Live Support Have you made a purchase on the site Sir? Marshall kilpatrick Jessica we've gone over this all ready AsianDate Live Support Kindly hold AsianDate Live Support Sir did you discuss this matter with me on Live Support as I am unable to recall Marshall kilpatrick Everything is all set as far as the advertising that I promised you I I was just checking for the last time to see if you were going to refund my creditsThat you stole from me before I push the button for the advertisement to start yes i did AsianDate Live Support Sir, which credits are you referring about? AsianDate Live Support You made one purchase for credits on the site on September 2nd Marshall kilpatrick I am not playing this game with you again Jessica I guess I got my answer you'll find the advertisement all over Facebook and if you other places and I have you Jessica as the solicitor of this fraud this being committed you have a wonderful day I'm signing off now AsianDate Live Support
Sir, I do apologise, however you did not speak to me about this. Do you remember who you spoke with? Marshall kilpatrick you you you You Was the first AsianDate Live Support I am checking the communication you had with my colleague Maria. One moment please Marshall kilpatrick And I have all copied and documented so they know it's not just my words saying you're a scam they can read it for them selves Another encounter with their online support service goes as follows: AsianDate Live Support Welcome to Asianbeauties's Live Support where we're dedicated to safe and secure dating. Marshall kilpatrick I'am trying to send a letter it's telling me it wants money to send the letter I've already sent money why is it asking for more money when I did not use the credits up yet Marshall kilpatrick is this site a scam AsianDate Live Support
Hello there! My name is Jessica and I'll be helping you today. I would appreciate it if you would rate my assistance at the end of this Live Support session by copying and pasting the following link into the address bar of your browser: https://www.nicereply.com/it-strategy.livesupport/26129859 Marshall kilpatrick ok AsianDate Live Support has left the conversation. AsianDate Live Support Welcome to Asiandate's Live Support where we're dedicated to safe and secure dating. Marshall kilpatrick I know what you are doing and so will everyboby else AsianDate Live Support Hello there! My name is Jessica and I'll be helping you today. I would appreciate it if you would rate my assistance at the end of this Live Support session by copying and pasting the following link into the address bar of your browser: https://www.nicereply.com/it-strategy.livesupport/26129859 Marshall kilpatrick Iam going to let everybody know that this is an scam site with my friend that's in advertising good by Marshall kilpatrick and we will do this for free AsianDate Live Support has left the conversation.
This site does not allo anyone to get any contact info so they can meet, many ladies are upset because of the same each party wants to meet even for vacations but because this compaby is restricting what is allowed. even censorship. two people should have the right to exchange their infor mation if they choose too.this comany goes by many names and i think they had an office in new york. i have lost many thousands of dollars here i want compensation for my looses all they do is collect your money and run to the bank. they don't even offer an ambra, this what some sites have to allow the ladies to release their information.
The companies customer service is in Moscow Russia. I was a member for over 3 years and have wasted over a hundred thousand dollars. A monthly $ 9.99 and a high fee abought $400 for a little over 300 e mail chat line, phone call credits each e mail to them is 10 credits and to read theirs is 10 credits. Phone calls are 10 credits each 5 minutes. I tried with 8 so called different women who were gung h*o to come here until they got their visa then escuses galore why they couldn't come. I suspected this to be a scam so I ran an investigation to see if these ladies really exist. We found out they don't and this is a big ripoff. I recommend based out of Hawaii and the ladies really do exist it is $119.00 a year no extra charges
After going through a painful divorce more than 3 years ago I thought that the exciting format of AsianBeauties or AsianDate would provide me with salvation from my lonely life and would restore my faith in marraige again, but soon I found irregularities that I should have taken seriously much sooner!
The site is not only expensive but you are charged based upon credits you buy and are charged so 10 credits to read a letter, 10 credits to write a letter, 10 credits to reply to a letter, so many credits per minute to chat live, even more credits per minute to view a live cam of the girl you're talking to. It becomes outrageous quickly so their line of bull must be convincing! They know how to appeal to a man's bruised ego! They know how to manipulate you. The bway they write letters, their frivolous compliments like "how does it feel to be the most popular man on the site" or "will you marry me if I give you 50 million dollars" or " my sister and I would like to share the same man. Are you interested" soon you begin to get their drift.
I made the mistake of believing a girl who told me her life story and then told me in Chinese she loved me "wo ai nie" she said she thought of me as her husband and wanted me to move to China to live with her. I flew there in December of 2014 into Shanghai. We were supposed to spend 3 weeks together. Yet, when I saw her at the airport I knew by the expression on her face something was wrong! It was as though the person who had been writing me and had been chatting with me was not only the girl I met at the airport, but she had no idea what the writers had been telling me. Little did I realize at the time since I was so shocked that they have 3 distinct departments, the letter writers, the chat personnel, and the model photos on the profiles.
The girl in Shanghai could only spend 3 nights with me and that was because I begged her to stay with me until I could arrange a flight back costing me $1000.00 for changing my reservation. We did not even sleep together. She requested a separate bed in Chinese when we checked into Tong Mau Hotel and my 3 nights in Shanghai were spent in anguish and confusion. I really feel not only hurt but very foolish. I did not know that a supposedly professional firm could so ruthlessly decieve their clientele!
My latest bungling attempt happened in January of 2017 when I bought credits for a woman who wrote me more than a thousand letters constantly telling me of her desire for me, her loneliness, and her desire to share her life with me. So, I bought credits and arranged a phone call which is also costly as hell! When I spoke with her it was as though the person writing me and the person speaking to me over the phone were two different people and completely opposite in their feelings it amazed me! I got my credit card company to reverse the charges, but this has been a pattern. I had paid for phone calls with 4 other women each call costing me at least 140 credits, after buying credits to chat and write letters to these women who had written to me more than a thousand times! The pattern repeats itself over and over again!
I had 2 women promise me they were going to fly to me and could I pick them up from the airport! Each time they came up with a last minute excuse. "My father had a heart attack" "My face broke out in a rash" or " I had 5 tumors removed from my chest" it is not funny but it must be hilarious to these people that they can get away with these lies and make so much money at it! When I informed their customer service about this and that just 3 days after telling me her Dad had a heart attack she was back online again fliritng and asking me if I would bring her a towel if she was in the shower. Is this how a woman would react if her Daddy just had a heart attack? Hell no! Customer service's reply, " we cannot control the woman's response if she changes her mind." What a crock of sh**!
With thousands of complaints about this site at several other sites why hasn't a class action law suit been enacted? How does a unscupulous company like this who advertises all over the internet get away with doing this to so many men? I can't understand this! I have spent more than ten thousand dollars on this site over 3 years like a fool hoping against all hope that I would find at least one honest and real woman, but time and time again I found myself frustrated and humiliated again and again!
Their customer service is a piece of work. Their people are trained to evade the issues and contantly make excuses for the lying actions of the fake profiles instead of even attempting to understand the obvious deception taking place. I told one representative that women were telling me they wanted to fly to my airport when I had not told them which airport was closest to me so I worried about them being stranded. Their first resaction was that they were grown women responsible for their own actions then when I pressed harder they replied then I shouldn't communicate with them anymore! Shouldn't their response have been to get the name of the profile and ban them from the site for lying to the customers and costing them money by scamming them? Nope! They don't give a d**n! This goes to show they know these women are lying, writing fake letters, and probably getting paid to do it too! They claim to have an anti scam policy! What a joke! Let's just call it PLAUSIBLE DENIAL!
These issues I have described to you are just the tip of the iceberg! I could go into much deeper detail. Asiandate is like a black hole that sucks in your money, insults your intelligence, and provides nothing but an illusion! They should be criminally charged for perpetrating a massive fraudulent enterprise! In America, these owners would be jailed and fined!
This company is 100% fake and has and is stealing peoples money as we speak!, they offer a dating service and exchange of information program, using fake picture of women that they have collected, then they have workers who operate a website who pretend to be these women you talk to.
These people work pretending to chat with you as the women in the picture, they offer fake phone call services to exchange information with your supposed date which is not real, they offer paid chat as listed below
This site uses a credit based system, not a monthly membership.
1000 Credits $399.00 (With 1000 credits you can do the following, 1000 minutes of live chat, or 500 minutes of live chat with video, or 170 minutes of CamShare, or send or read 100 emails.)
500 Credits for $249.00
320 Credits $185.00
Features:
Mailing System: You can read and send emails from this section.
Ladies: You can search for ladies, watch videos of them, see ladies who live in the USA, as well as see who is online right now.
Services: In the services you can call women, send them flowers and presents. There is also live chat and cam share available through this section. There is something called "Date A Lady", where you can fly out and meet the Asian girl in person. You can also arrange romance tours where you fly and meet Asian women in introductions provided by AsianDate.com. The cost for the romance tours includes premium hotel accommodation, hospitality center services and an American representative that is available 24/7. The cost for a full tour is $3895.
Customer Service: You can contact customer service through this area.
My Account: The "my account" section enables you to purchase credits, access your profile, change your account info and change your settings or password.
160 Credits for $96.00
80 Credits for $56.00
40 Credits for $30.00
20 Credits for $2.99
Overview
AsianDate.com aka AsianBeauties.net aka OrientBrides.com all redirect people to AsianDate.com. This is a mail order bride service for Western men interested in meeting Asian women.
Right off the bat we were bombarded with chat requests from Asian women, that's the good news. The bad news is that this site uses a credit based system that you can burn through credits very quickly if you don't watch it. You can take a look at the prices above in the "cost" breakdown. We received 5 emails and based on purchasing a thousand credits it would cost us $4 per email to reply back to the women. Sending emails back and forth at $4 per email can add up very quickly.
Chat Messages
When we were logged on the site we received quite a few instant messages. You can chat with women for free and surprisingly the chat messages are not automated on this site. We asked specific questions such as what time it was and we received the right response, so there are real people on this site. You can send about 4 free messages before you are asked to upgrade and purchase credits on the site. The problem we have with the chat messages is that you really don't know who you're talking to. Yes, you see a photograph of an attractive looking Asian girl but is that who you're really talking to?
The chat messages constantly pop up from new girls all the time. As usual you can only send them a few lines and then you need to buy credits to continue. We didn't upload any photos to our profile purposely just to see the kind of response we would get. Even without any photos in our dating profile were were still bombarded with chat requests constantly. This seems a little suspicious, wouldn't the girls want to know who they were sending messages to?
Real Women Or Paid Models?
The problem we have with the chat messages is that you really don't know who you're talking to. Yes, you see a photograph of an attractive looking Asian girl but is that who you're really talking to? Almost all the girls on AsianDate.com do look like models. Obviously we have no way of proving these are actually paid models or just attractive looking Asian girls looking to meet Western men. If you look at the Asian population as a whole, most women in Asia do not look like this attractive. So, this leads us to believe these are models who were paid for the use of their photographs possibly. Below are just 4 of the women who contacted us. Another reason of concern is that our profile for this review had no photos in it. Why would any women be interested in contacting us if they don't know what we look like (see proof of of empty profile below)? Is it possible that they get paid to chat with us and string us along so we burn through credits that much quicker?
Tours
Not only can you chat, email and video chat with women but you can also take romance tours directly to Asian countries such as China and Thailand. The cost for these tours range between $2695.00, all the way up to $3895.00. The question you need to ask yourself is are you actually going to meet someone through these tours, or are you going to spend thousands of dollars and be left wondering what the hell you spend your money on?
Online Reviews
We also went online to read other reviews from members of the site to see what they had to say about this site. Unfortunately we were left wondering if there were any legitimate reviews at all. We did find what seemed to be legit reviews complaining about the service and how it seems to use professional model images (see evidence below). All the positive reviews seemed to be written by people who are not native English speakers. The way the reviews were written it's very easy to see that the reviews are not written by Western men. We personally feel that the majority of positive online reviews that we came across were actually all phony.
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I would like to be part of the settlement in a class action lawsuit returning all the money stolen from customers through this site as i have been scammed out of thousands of dollars its just not right!
Here is my personnal story with www.asiandate.com...
In December 2015 i have discovered that dating site where, at the beginning i wasn't about to subscribe to...I started to receive a lot of letters and got particularly interested by one of the members sending...
After a while seeing that this girl seemed to be really interested on me by keeping on sending me letters almost everyday, i have decided to subscribe to answer her...The site is very expansive for any type of communication but i was so excited to have a chance to find my soulmate that i passed over that problem...we have exchanged letters for about a month when she tells me that she is going to come over in my country to meet me. But finally she built up some excuses and didn't come. She has sent me quiet a few pictures but the pictures did not absolutely looked like it was her on them It could of been her on some of them, some others where looking like they where over photoshoped and i also have received some where it was easy to tell it wasn't her!!!.
After seeing all those pictures and the fact she finally didn't come like she said, i became suspicious but i have decided to keep on playing the game to see how far this would go...
We kept on talking for a while but i could not hide the fact i was suspicious and when she realised i was, she just stopped sending me letters or answering the ones i was sending...
Anyways i kept on talking to her sometimes through the chat where she kept on showing some false interest towards me. After having spent over 500$ on that site i realised it would be better to buy myself a plane ticket
and go to China to find myself a girlfriend. During the preparation of my trip i kept on talking to her sometimes and to put a maximum chances on my side i also started talking to some other girls
from around the place i was about to go to try to find the first one. I knew there was only one on a million chances i could actually find her but i decided to take it at least if i could find the girl to have a little talk with her, have some explanations and try to understand how this business really works...
The girl was supposed to be living in Suzhou wich is about 90 km away from shanghai (half an hour by speed train) so i started talking to one girl from Shanghai, another one also from Suzhou and one from some far away place from Shanghai called Hengyang...
A few days before my take off i have received a letter from the girl saying that when i come to China she would be my guide...Once in Shanghai i decided to try to see the one who was living around and tryied to reach her on the site to tell her i was around. Then i realised the site was not accessible from China...
Chinese government imposes restrictions about internet and a lot of sites are unreachable from there (Facebook, Google, Twitter, Youtube,....) unless you are in Hong Kong wich is apparently the only place in China where there are no restrictions, probably due to the fact that place has been for a while some English colonised place...So i got myself a vpn (it's a programm allowing you to change your ip and makes you able to reach the sites you are not supposed to in China) and got onto the site
The girl was unsure about meeting me because each time i spoke to her i was always on a rush as she said, wich is true due to the amount to pay only for talking a few minutes and i prefered to keep my money
to spend on real meetings...Finally i didn't have enough time to stay anymore in Shanghai and had to move to Suzhou where i wanted to find the principal reason of my coming, (her name is Sophia).
Once arrived in Suzhou i spoke to Sophia to tell her i was around and asked her if she still wanted to meet...She said yes but i am on a business trip
(oh come on first you say when i come to China you will be my guide and you know when i was coming but finally you are not there...). So i told her i am here until the 21 march, here is my adress (postal adress are supposed to go through with letters and i could verify it because i got a rendez vous point with another girl wich i will explain later).
Finally Sophia never showed up and i have left Suzhou a little bit sad because the mission was a failure...
I knew there was a very strong possibility that things would of happened that way but the one who doesn't try doesn't get and anyways i knew this trip would bring me a lot of other good things
so finally there is no loss, only gain when you look at it in a positive way....Like i said earlier to put the maximum chances on my side i have been talking to other girls and there is also one from Hengyang (wich is about 1200km away from Suzhou)
I could speak to that one from Hengyang and could arrange a meeting with her in her city. She seemed very excited to meet me. She gave me the name of a place to meet (in Chinese) and a time also...
A day before the meeting date i took the train to Hengyang (21 hours of train, i had to take a bed otherwise it must be hard, lol) and got on time to my meeting...where the girls DOES! show up but...
The first thing is that she absolutelu doesn't look like on the pictures, she was so beautifull on them and i am in front of a girl wich is not so bad looking but more fat and has a pretty round face.
I could analyse that it was maybe the girl on the pictures but with a lot of work through photoshop because i could find a little comparison spot on one of her tooth that seemed to be the same.
Another thing when we took arrangements for the meeting she tells me: I think we must take a translator for the first time otherwise its going to be hard for us to communicate. I agreed but later i went back on my thought because i remembered i had a translator on my cell phone wich is not accurate but still it would do with a lot of fun between the mistakes. So the next day i went back to her saying that it would not be absolutely needed. Then she tells me well i already have made arrangements with her...oh ok let's do it that way then...When i met her there was the translator wich was also a girl and apparently was one of her classmates. There was also a third girl that had no reason to be there but was...The girl i was meeting looked like she did not really care about me and i have spent more time speaking with the translator than herself!
We went to an expansive restaurant where she commanded a lot of food for all of us and made me pay an expansive bill!!!The translator gave me the impression of working for the site because she was using specific words also used on the site. She was also not translating everything i was saying and when i asked questions about the site and why the girl was not looking like on the pictures she sometimes did not answer the questions and she said: we chinese girls like to transform pictures to make ourselves look more pretty (well then this is not reality then and most of people would not do like me and keep on going but runaway as he sees the girl is not the real one!!!)
At the end of the meeting i could really see this was just a scam because the girl did not show any interest like she was on the site and at the time to say goodbye
i decided to force a hug to see her reaction and i could see she was almost disgusted (and i can tell you i am a very attractive western man!) but she gave me her qq number (it's a chinese kind of messenger).
Probably to play the game a bit and the first evening she has sent me a message but it quickly turned out this way: I was sending messages and she was barely answering,
so i got upset and told her like we say in french her 4 truth (to say all the truth about you) and then she said oh i'm sorry but i don't always have time to answer on this i hope you can understand...
oh yeah bad excuse i'm sorry but when you are interested into someone even only for friendship at least you find a few minutes to answer...
Finally i got back to my home country and a few days later she just erased me from her friendlist...I guess this little story shows how much asiandate is a SCAM,
i was supposed to meet three girls, i lost time for one, the second was a player and a liar and didn't show up, and the last one even if showed up was just there to take my money and have a good meal offered by me for her and her friends. I cannot make sure the translator was part of asiandate but i have the feeling that she might be working for them. Anyways this is a proof that at least some of the profiles (if not all of them) are fakes, wrong pictures and girls lying to you in order to get your money!!! Something else very important i have to say is when i was still in my country before the trip, when i realised all this was probably just scamming i got upset on the site and i have tryied to know more about them and wanted to have some sort of revenge so with the ip (if not fake) i could understand that the site is based either in Hong Kong because it's the only place where it is itself reachable in China, either in Malaysia because that is what the IP was saying
for a while i was so upset that i have decided to lauch a multiple DDos attack against them and guess what happened? a few minutes after the attack some hacker from malaysia got onto my mailbox (hotmail told me themselves the attempt was coming from malaysia (weird isn't it?)) and to hack a mailbox it takes at least 5 to 10 minutes so i am sure the cookies from the sites gives them all informations about you and what you type!!! The hacker probably wanted to see if the attack was coming from one of their own members upset by their scamming!
In this story there are a lot of precisions missing but it would take ages if i would put all of the story on so i kind of compressed and put the most important things about it.
Anyways, thank you for reading and eventually possible support...We must stop this business, So many men have lost a lot of money, so many hearts where played with and got sometimes broken, only for some bastards with no heart, no conscious, no principles to drive around in a porshe and probably f**k some hookers with the money!!!
Don't you think it's time to stop this? I would be happy and gratefull if some members of Anonymous could read this letter and decide to launch massive attacks around their firewalls to turn down forever their f**king servers. That is the thing to do...
There is no court that will stop them and even if there was one, they have enough money to pay and start it again, we must discourage them by showing 1°) they have lost all credibility and the whole world knows about them and what they are doing
2°) take their servers down for good. There are plenty of ways for making money without rubbing poor heart-broken and lonely people with at the same time destroying their hope. Have you ever thought some might have suicided by having been lyied by some girl they where
hoping so much onto? What they do is criminal acting of the worst kind.
The only advice i can give is if you feel attracted by Chinese or any other type of oriental ladies, learn chinese or whatever their language is, get yourself a plane ticket and fly there to find your soulmate! or at least go to some other site, there are other sites where ladies speak english and if not we have translators that can help and even if not accurate enough you will both have a good time laughing while you learn out of each other!!!
I apologise for any mistakes made in the letter but english is not my first language...
A couple of weeks ago, after getting a email from a girl on the AsianDate.com, saying she was on her way here, I tried to get on line to say no to her that I was not ready yet and had to get to know her first! I had too pay for credits to even try, that lasted only a few words, forcing me to have to purchase more! $60 later I gave it up!
When I met a few wemen I liked, and tried to send them my phone number and emailaddress, they all three said it was blocked. When they sent me thiers the same happened.
I realized then that is what this service does. They block each member thier phone numbers and email address, ententually to keep two hearts getting together, just so that those who are one the site to be real with a guy or woman, has too keep spending money for thier service, in which either way does not do the man or woman any good at any point or time!
When you fisrt join the site, it has you to check the only box they have to check to have you fee automatically deducted from your bank account, and I found that I had to go in my account and change it to not to be automatically deducted!
I as well found that once you run out of credits, and go to purchase more, I discovered from the start that they automatically have the 1000 credits checked hoping that you do not notice and not change it, that cost $390 some.
This site and the owner him self needs to be prossicuted and imprissoned for frauding his and or her customers and made to return his customers money right from the start of his illeagal biusness!
Where I seen and detected, that some of the girls that got on line to talk was obviousely working for this site and helping them scam, I as well found that some of them was not and was being scammed just like me. And all I was trying to do is let some girl know to not come here that I barely know her! But I would not turn her away from my door if she did!
This site and plus the AnastasiaDate.com needs to be shut down and the owners put in prison and all the good people they scammed re-embursed and compensated!
You can let the owner know it was I who filed the complaint and it is I who is willing to help burn his and or her rear-ends!
I do not play these games and I do not like nor will tollerate it be done to me or anyone other!
No site has the legal right to block email address and phone numbers to keep two hearts that wishes to possably get together, from being able to do so!
AsianDate.com Reviews
I have been using the Asian date to try to find my soulmate what i really got was a computer full of trojans and malware and completely hacked.i went there because i was tired of all the fake dating crap that was out there I was seeing a woman named yi fang .well i spent $100.00 on chatting with her online and did not even talk with her i complained over and over to the site's administration to know avail the woman or the site sent one message to me as if it was from her and she had promised to get off the site .it never happened .
this site took advantage of me and stole money from me and left my computer a wreck.it is not at all how it seems and companies like this should not be allowed to continue business on the internet. it is the devil of the internet and something needs to be done about them .i believe the woman never existed and that most or all are just a complete fraud and is doing nothing but stealing and emotionally taking advantage of men searching for love
Asian Date or Asian Beauties claims to be a dating site that is full of beautiful Chinese and Asian women seeking true marriage partners and seems mostly leaning toward western and American men with this narrative about viewing us as being more caring and romantic like Jack in the "Titanic" movie. Oh yeah, and these poor "Left Over Women" are just desperately seeking a good man!
You found out real fast that the money it costs for all the provocative chats, letters, and text messages far surpasses the reality of who these women really are and what a fool the site will make of you! The site design is dazzling for a new comer who had probably been recently divorced or is sick and tired of the bullshit from self centered American women and Asian Date knows exactly how to appeal to the bruised ego of a male who is sincerely looking for a trustworthy woman without having to go out to the bars or boring socials to find one.
You will find after being there a while that things quickly don't add up. Profiles that are online all day and night long ( are these bitches on meth?) Lies about wanting badly to come and see you in America only to tell you "Daddy just had a heart attack can't make it" "I got some sort of a rash" "My employer won't let me go for the time I had scheduled" " I didn't get my Visa like I thought I would" and it will happen over and over again like clockwork too while you're spending thousands!
They must use psychological tactics to pull at your heart strings and make you feel guilty or that you should care because they will lie, cheat steal, and break your heart while destroying your faith in women at the same time. Don't get involved in this site you will regret it! I know after being stupid enough to be a member for 3 years continually trying to convince myself there was an answer in a rabbit hole designed to suck your money!
The only good reviews you will find are no doubt posted by site employees working for Asian Date or whatever Cupid network dating site they own which are plenty! You wonder why they have no success stories posted and would they even be true if there were? Save yourself the anguish!
Guys, i guess you could say that i'm probably one of the most gullible, if not the most naive man ever put on this planet because of all the fraudulent women with whom i spared no expense communicating with on asiandate.com who successfully managed to seduce me into believing that i had a genuine shot at a real relationship with them. Unfortunately for me, the gorgeous young asian beauties on that website who entised me into thinking that i had a real chance with any of them, were just doing a job they were being paid to do by asiandate.com and affiliates Sub-contractors). The entire time i was a paid member of asiandate.com i never wanted to believe i was being lied to or deceived by anyone. I kept wanting to believe that the women i chatted with for hours on there were real because they made me feel like i was a god to them, constantly writing letters to me, sending me beautiful photographs, sending me their cute little messages addressed specifically to me using my first name, messages that would magically appear on the right-hand side of my computer screen whenever they knew i was online.
I kept buying more and more credits to the tune of $9,749.68 us dollars on my paypal account during 8 months i was a member! omg, what a complete fool i was!! yes, you read it right. No, i'm not kidding you. From april 26th, 2016 The first day i joined asiandate.com) until december 25th, 2016 Christmas day, when i finally came to my senses and realized asiandate.com is a total scam) i spent a grand total of $9,749.68 in the hopes i would eventually meet one of those gorgeous young asian women in person from asiandate.com. But instead, all i got for my money was severe emotional heartbreak along with numerous wasted hours upon hours of my precious time.
Warning: asiandate.com can be extremely addictive! i would spend most of my days and nights sitting in front of my computer searching through an average of 25 to 50 women's profiles, saving the ones i thought were the best in my "favorites" folder. At the end of 8 months, i had accumulated a whopping 1,904 profiles in my "favorites" folder. And not a single one of those 1,904 profiles that i had accumulated in my "favorites" folder was ever deleted or removed by either the lady herself nor asiandate! red flag!!!
During my 8 months as a paying member on asiandate.com i focused in on 6 specific asian women. Some women would send me multiple letters almost daily. One lady actually sent me 39 letters in one day! she sent me well over 120 letters total, and silly me, i paid to open every single one of them thinking she was the women for me. Of course, each letter costs ten credits Approximately $8 dollars each letter) to open and read. Each letter would start out addressing me by my first name, followed by one or two short paragraphs of meaninglyless generic fluff that could have been written to any guy. Most letters included a free photograph to open, but many times the photos weren't of the same woman Another red flag!!!).
Asiandate.com makes it very clear in their membership "terms and conditions" that contact information exchange is only allowed through their "call me" service, which is very expensive at a minimum cost of 100 credits About $80 for a very short 10-minute phone call using an interpretor). So i scheduled phone calls with each of the 6 women i focused on using the "call me" service offered by asiandate.com to exchange our phone numbers and email addresses. Everytime i tried to call them from my phone to their phone, either they wouldn't answer or the number they gave me would be invalid or a non-working number! same with their email addresses. I would send them an email message, but never receive any emails from any of them! whenever i asked them to try calling or emailing me, they claimed to try calling me, but my phone would never ring and i would never receive any emails either Yet another red flag!!!).
I would try to get them to send me a photograph of themselves holding up a white piece of paper with my name written on it to prove to me that i was actually dealing with the same exact woman i saw in her profile photos. And to my surprise, 3 out of six of the women i asked actually did this! but to my disappointment, i could tell that two of the photos were doctored up and fake, probably using photoshop, while the third was actually real but the woman's face did not look like the same woman in her profile photos because her nose and ears were different Yet one more red flag!!!).
So why am i spending my precious time posting this review of asiandate.com here on Outscam ??? Obviously i'm the first to admit that i'm an idiot and a fool for spending $9,749.68 united states currency on this ripoff dating site and i merely want to try to spread the word around that asiandate.com is in the business to deceive lonely men like me into believing we have a real shot at a genuine relationship with asian women. I fell for it. Hopefully my experience will discourage other lonely men from falling for this fraudulent company. I'm not making any of this up. It's such a sad world we live in when companies like asiandate.com have no conscience. I'm sure all of the beautiful asian women shown on their website are only paid models, and are not actual women searching for love and relationships. All of the profiles on asiandate never get deleted! Red flag!!!) they are all fake profiles designed to look convincingly real.
Two more things worth mentioning. Whenever i tried the live video-chat feature with some of the ladies because i wanted to see them on their web-cams, i noticed many of the live web-cam videos i saw would actually "loop" after about ten minutes or so, showing me the exact same video footage as before! i knew it wasn't a "live" web-cam whenever i would ask the lady to do something and she wouldn't do it. Other ladies who actually did appear to be on a "live" web-cam did not look anything like their profile photos. And some ladies had their live web-cam aimed down at their b***s so i couldn't see their face, and would not show me their face even when i asked them numerous times. Also, whenever i complained about this Or anything else) to asiandate customer service, the customer service agent would always act like they genuinely cared about me, even sending me follow up messages telling me they would resolve any problem i was having, claiming that every girl posted on their website has been thoroughly checked out and is real, not fake. What a joke! believe me when i tell you, asiandate is a complete scam. You will never ever meet any of the gorgeous women posted on asiandate.com but you will certainly lose your money, your time and your heart!
I heard that paypal, visa and mastercard all got together and boycotted wiki-leaks, making it impossible for anyone to donate money to wiki-leaks, effectively cutting off their funding source. Seems to me that if more guys like me were to collaborate and get a petition of maybe one-hundred-thousand signatures signed up and delivered it to the attorney general of the united states, maybe the attorney general could pressure paypal, visa and mastercard to boycott payment services to asiandate.com which should effectively cut off a major source of funding to this fraudulent operation???
I certainly hope this first-hand experience and honest review of asiandate helps prevent others from making such a mistake as i have made. Asiandate.com is fraudulent and cruel to lonely men looking for companionship.
I have been on this site more than a year. There are many fake accounts used to make customers spend more money on the site by reading mail or chatting. They lure people by sendin private pictures, which are actually belong to 3r parties. I can give some examples. ID: 1437231 account send instagram pictures of wendy yu as her own pictures. ID: 1392683 sends korean model named yeyong pictures as if her own picture. ID: 1524612 sends pictures from chinese nude picture sites.
All can be verified by revers picure search on google. 3 cases just an example of many fake accounts on this site. When I complain about this to site management, they send me mail saying all cases must be verified by link. And there is no wrong with sending porn site pictures. But they ignore the fact that it is cheating to send 3rd party picture as if her own. I suspect most of the fake accounts are paid agents of the site to increase their revenue. They have other way of scamming people as well, but this is the easily proofable one.
By the time of writing this letter I discoverd that reverse search of wendy yu pictures were removed but her instagram pictures still in there. This site also cover this kind of evidance to clear their name. They also use mail flood method to generate more revenue from their customers. I have more than 75K emails in my inbox to read. One account ID: 1480192 sent me 18K+ letters, which I never responded.
Considering each mail cost 10 credit and 20 credit costs 16$, appearently she spend 288K $ which is highly impossible. There are many such as accounts which it will take time to compile reqired data. It is obvious this is scam done by this infamous site.
I got on asiandate.com in 2014 looking for a life mate and wife. As i am 61 and never been married, but i have had some history with asian people, i thought this was great. But many times i became very frustrated because all the girls seem to want to do is chat and write letters, even though so many kept promising me love, sex, and even material riches.
Most would not even answer my questions and concerns, stuff that will be very important for our future life together, just ignoring what i was saying and asking. And everytime i find one that i am extremely attracted to, and tell them to come over here and prove what they say to me, they either stop writing or give me excuses.
They tell me they don't have a visa, they can't speak english good enough, their parents are sick, they are very busy with their business, even though they claim they already have either millions or billions, blah blah. And this is after they already say they will come over here and marry me, buy a house, start a business here, etc. I have given so many "girls" chance after chance with no results.
Over and over the same girls keep saying the same things in chat like robots, even though you push the block button they keep popping back in a short time. They keep sending the same letters many times. There are some "girls" who will send me letters that have been sending them to me since 2015, and they still have the same exact profile pictures without updating them.
I have written emails to the support department many times, and got on live support speaking to employees making complaints many times. But all i get from the employees is either excuses or evasive stupid replies, or they will not even answer me. Me and the other men who get on that site have to pay for everything, all the letters to and from the "ladies" and all the chat sessions.
I complained many times and asked why do i have to pay for all the contacts when so many of the chinese "ladies" claim to be so super wealthy. Well i finally found out by looking here on Scamion recently and seen that there are other men making complaints and have had the same bad experiences that i have had. I also checked on youtube and seen videos there of the many scams being committed by this and similar dating sites.
The live support employees have russian sounding names. I see it now that what others here have said is the truth. They have taken pictures of a lot of young sexy girls, but the website has their employees do the letter writing and the chatting in an elaborate hoax and scam making men think they are talking and writing with the girls in the pictures. This is a lie and a total scam. This is why men cannot find a real woman on this website.
There are too many instances and things that have happened on this phony site that i cannot even recall them all. Every single man that has had these same experiences i have had should do as i am doing, file complaints here on this site, and also go to the website of the federal trade commission and file complaints there.
In 2014 the f.T.C. Took its first law enforcement action against a similar site such as this one that i am making this complaint against, and this asiandate site is just like the one that f.T.C. Took action against, they had multiple websites using fake profiles and cheating men out of their money. Well, the federal trade commission fined that other site for more than 616,000 u.S. Dollars and made them pay that in redress, and also prohibits them from using fake computer-generated profiles that were tricking men.
The company that is behind this asiandate.com needs for this to happen to them also, and if enough men will make the complaints, we can see justice happen and get our money back. The company which goes by different names seems to have their scam offshore offices in malta, seemingly thinking they are untouchable out there. I gave the malta address in the company address part, but they supposedly have a office here in the united states. ---> dating gateways llc, 589 8th ave., 23rd floor, new york, n.Y. 10018.
PDF Analysis file. 45kb (Summary of the most common suspicious items versus the declared location / city of the AsianDate lady member contacting me):
https://mega.nz/#!qLwySCqZ!lYsTWO-8b85rim4FNgQ803SsIKPEr5f1M2eTjvvhU8U
Images: 17.8Mb. Selected images (384 No.of 2135 I downloaded) grouped by suspicious common object or item.
https://mega.nz/#!XTIFAIZZ!KPIRRa4a4nZ-bYJKP5k02pN_YRZcuz3OvnTA1M4qK9c
Profile PDFs: 179Mb (Inividual ladies profiles (226 No. of approx. 521 downloaded). These are for reference to prove the claimed location / city of the lady members, their member ID and the small images of photos on the profile page, available for downloading by male members and are in the Selected Images zip file.
https://mega.nz/#!LTIkkYCb!nj4Hk2FGAqs9wvW5itysHJ672H8-EYC1IvEU_XXFfwA
Statement
I was a male member of this site for several months and a subscribing member for about 3 months. I subscribed because I believed ladies contacting me were real. In all I have spent several hundred NZ dollars at AsianDate. I also had a subscription at a "sister" site ChinaLove.com and group losses are estimated at a little over NZD1000.
Because I was receiving so many letters of interest letters from many ladies, I updated my profile to provide more information about me; also subtly containing ways to contact me without them having to pay 10 "Credits" each time. In my replies to ladies, I pointed out how to identify the contact details. At no time did any lady I replied to, contact me other than via the AsianDate website. Several ladies had sent me over 500 emails, many over 100 and a lot over 20. I believed these ladies were genuinely trying to connect with me. 1 "Credit" is approximately NZD1.00.
At no time did I receive a reply that was sensible and clearly in response to questions I asked or gave information about me. One of the ladies I exchanged several emails with had a very distinctive dress. Another lady contacting me also was wearing an identical dress. By this time, I was becoming suspicious because not one person had responded to me as I had requested. The identical dress issue raised my level of awareness and I began noticing other similarities and noted them. These similarities were becoming so common, I downloaded many images from ladies that had contacted me; also I saved the profile in PDF format. Having this data made it relatively straightforward to peruse many images in a reasonably short time and I observed many suspicious profile photos. I am unsure about whther the "ladies" I was in contact with are real or merely models and system generated messages.
I wrote a letter of complaint to AsianDate on 23 April, stating my concerns and demanding a refund of all money I had paid to them. I sent images to demonstrate the repetative objects and pointed out the great distance between the ladies' stated home city. I also raised the matter of receiving hundreds of emails from some ladies but I had not replied. I stated a belief the letters were system generated and queried the high cost to a lady sending me over 500 messages (over 5000 NZ dollars).
There were a series of exchanges between AsianDate Support and I. The person repsonding admitted because they have so many members to manage, they use "an agency" and the items I had told them I observed several times may have been provided to help the ladies look their best. I replied and sent specimen images and also the PDF analysis summary of selected repeat objects (about 40% of those observed) so they could understand my concerns. They also admitted some ladies are able to commnicate with men for nil cost. Other issues I had raised were identical approach letters from ladies, including "typos". They at first expressed concern that this had happened but later replied that ladies can access certain standard approach letters and send to me based on parameters such as age, country and the like. They declared the specimen messages contained errors and they would tell their IT people about this. I can send the draft copies of the letters I emailed to AsianDate support people. I have not attached nor uploaded these to Mega but would forward them if I am asked. Images I sent to them were stripped of identifying lady member data and were grouped by common occurrence.
I believe AsianDate and possible their "sister" sites operating on the same revenue model are a scam. I found many such alegations at several internet sites dealing with dating scams. My reasons for believing this are the unusual replies from ladies and not being able to progress communications but principally the many suspicious photos and multiple use of "props". I have downloaded at toal of 2,135 images and 521 profiles. The uploaded files referenced at the beginning illustrate 35 No. repetitions of supicious items e.g. 45 ladies observed in the same bathtub, 24 ladies sitting on the same "throne"-like chair when 15 were from Mumbai and 9 from New Delhi (>1400 km apart). I suspect there are some legitimate female members but I supect there are many photo-models.
The images have been scanned manually, "by eye". Several are grouped because of identical backgrounds and are therefore high probability the same. A professional analysis using AI Scanning Technology would no doubt reveal far more than I have managed to identify. I have not for example grouped images of certain outdoor environments e.g. distinctive "garage doors", paving, trees and the like. The anlysis I did has taken well over 100 hours to do and there may of course be some errors in judgement. I believe there is much evidence of "photoshop" type editing, colour changes and even persons suspected as being superimposed into a background. Digital analysis will reveal much.
My suspicions are high because AsianDate did not specifically answer or respond to my questions. If I am greatly mistaken, this is the biggest blunder of my life. But I have shared my "evidence" with others and asked for their objective opinions. Without exception, they were supportive of my suspicions
The reason I am reporting this here, today is I have read so many other people reporting many thousands of dollars wasted at AsianDate. My losses compared to these people are quite small. I realised quite quickly that things were not right. One man I have been in contact with has lost over USD5000. Some reported losses are far higher.
I welcome a response and request for further information. I have only uploaded the more obvious files. Some other events are lower frequency and some profiles are untainted; hence I believe it possible some lady members are legitimate.
Why don't Interpol raid them and close them down??
I've been a member of AsianDate for about 5 months (and spent several hundreds of dollars). I have been suspicious about them for some time as I spotted the absurdly high number of emails, presumably costing ladies 10 credits each to send and groaned each time I opened a reply to my email - just a few short lines, even after appealing to them to reply to my message with a considered reply, the next day. All to no avail.
I now have proof that it is a scam as I received two letters from two different ladies with the EXACT same wording INCLUDING the same "typo" error. I have taken a snapshot of these and will happily offer them to someone that knows how to get a criminal investigation going. This is worse than disgusting what they are doing. They need to be closed down, compelled to reimburse us victims and those responsible need to reflect on their crime in solitary confinement for several years.
If you have only recently joined, I urge you to walk-away and accept you too were a victim of this heinous criminal activity.
Beware of AsianDate.com because they are scamming people by taking their money and not delivering what they say they will. They ask for your charge card in case you want to use parts of their service that require payment but they charged my credit right off the bat and I never even got to use the credits they charged me for because I was still accessing only the FREE areas and services of the website and now they won't refund my money and they give me the run around every time I try and get a refund pretending like they don't know what I'm talking about and trying start each attempt at a getting refund as a brand new issue. Recommend checking out the asiandatereviews website for additional evidence of their scamming activities
Example of just one of my customer service chats with the company is below! AsianDate Live Support Thanks for contacting Asianbeauties Live Support. Please let me know how I can help… Marshall kilpatrick I was just checking with you to find out why you haven't refund my credits yet After all you told me you weren't scammers AsianDate Live Support Hello there! My name is Jessica and I'll be helping you today. I would appreciate it if you would rate my assistance at the end of this Live Support session by copying and pasting the following link into the address bar of your browser: https://www.nicereply.com/it-strategy.livesupport/26129859 AsianDate Live Support Let me have a look for you Sir AsianDate Live Support Have you made a purchase on the site Sir? Marshall kilpatrick Jessica we've gone over this all ready AsianDate Live Support Kindly hold AsianDate Live Support Sir did you discuss this matter with me on Live Support as I am unable to recall Marshall kilpatrick Everything is all set as far as the advertising that I promised you I I was just checking for the last time to see if you were going to refund my creditsThat you stole from me before I push the button for the advertisement to start yes i did AsianDate Live Support Sir, which credits are you referring about? AsianDate Live Support You made one purchase for credits on the site on September 2nd Marshall kilpatrick I am not playing this game with you again Jessica I guess I got my answer you'll find the advertisement all over Facebook and if you other places and I have you Jessica as the solicitor of this fraud this being committed you have a wonderful day I'm signing off now AsianDate Live Support
Sir, I do apologise, however you did not speak to me about this. Do you remember who you spoke with? Marshall kilpatrick you you you You Was the first AsianDate Live Support I am checking the communication you had with my colleague Maria. One moment please Marshall kilpatrick And I have all copied and documented so they know it's not just my words saying you're a scam they can read it for them selves Another encounter with their online support service goes as follows: AsianDate Live Support Welcome to Asianbeauties's Live Support where we're dedicated to safe and secure dating. Marshall kilpatrick I'am trying to send a letter it's telling me it wants money to send the letter I've already sent money why is it asking for more money when I did not use the credits up yet Marshall kilpatrick is this site a scam AsianDate Live Support
Hello there! My name is Jessica and I'll be helping you today. I would appreciate it if you would rate my assistance at the end of this Live Support session by copying and pasting the following link into the address bar of your browser: https://www.nicereply.com/it-strategy.livesupport/26129859 Marshall kilpatrick ok AsianDate Live Support has left the conversation. AsianDate Live Support Welcome to Asiandate's Live Support where we're dedicated to safe and secure dating. Marshall kilpatrick I know what you are doing and so will everyboby else AsianDate Live Support Hello there! My name is Jessica and I'll be helping you today. I would appreciate it if you would rate my assistance at the end of this Live Support session by copying and pasting the following link into the address bar of your browser: https://www.nicereply.com/it-strategy.livesupport/26129859 Marshall kilpatrick Iam going to let everybody know that this is an scam site with my friend that's in advertising good by Marshall kilpatrick and we will do this for free AsianDate Live Support has left the conversation.
This site does not allo anyone to get any contact info so they can meet, many ladies are upset because of the same each party wants to meet even for vacations but because this compaby is restricting what is allowed. even censorship. two people should have the right to exchange their infor mation if they choose too.this comany goes by many names and i think they had an office in new york. i have lost many thousands of dollars here i want compensation for my looses all they do is collect your money and run to the bank. they don't even offer an ambra, this what some sites have to allow the ladies to release their information.
The companies customer service is in Moscow Russia. I was a member for over 3 years and have wasted over a hundred thousand dollars. A monthly $ 9.99 and a high fee abought $400 for a little over 300 e mail chat line, phone call credits each e mail to them is 10 credits and to read theirs is 10 credits. Phone calls are 10 credits each 5 minutes. I tried with 8 so called different women who were gung h*o to come here until they got their visa then escuses galore why they couldn't come. I suspected this to be a scam so I ran an investigation to see if these ladies really exist. We found out they don't and this is a big ripoff. I recommend based out of Hawaii and the ladies really do exist it is $119.00 a year no extra charges
After going through a painful divorce more than 3 years ago I thought that the exciting format of AsianBeauties or AsianDate would provide me with salvation from my lonely life and would restore my faith in marraige again, but soon I found irregularities that I should have taken seriously much sooner!
The site is not only expensive but you are charged based upon credits you buy and are charged so 10 credits to read a letter, 10 credits to write a letter, 10 credits to reply to a letter, so many credits per minute to chat live, even more credits per minute to view a live cam of the girl you're talking to. It becomes outrageous quickly so their line of bull must be convincing! They know how to appeal to a man's bruised ego! They know how to manipulate you. The bway they write letters, their frivolous compliments like "how does it feel to be the most popular man on the site" or "will you marry me if I give you 50 million dollars" or " my sister and I would like to share the same man. Are you interested" soon you begin to get their drift.
I made the mistake of believing a girl who told me her life story and then told me in Chinese she loved me "wo ai nie" she said she thought of me as her husband and wanted me to move to China to live with her. I flew there in December of 2014 into Shanghai. We were supposed to spend 3 weeks together. Yet, when I saw her at the airport I knew by the expression on her face something was wrong! It was as though the person who had been writing me and had been chatting with me was not only the girl I met at the airport, but she had no idea what the writers had been telling me. Little did I realize at the time since I was so shocked that they have 3 distinct departments, the letter writers, the chat personnel, and the model photos on the profiles.
The girl in Shanghai could only spend 3 nights with me and that was because I begged her to stay with me until I could arrange a flight back costing me $1000.00 for changing my reservation. We did not even sleep together. She requested a separate bed in Chinese when we checked into Tong Mau Hotel and my 3 nights in Shanghai were spent in anguish and confusion. I really feel not only hurt but very foolish. I did not know that a supposedly professional firm could so ruthlessly decieve their clientele!
My latest bungling attempt happened in January of 2017 when I bought credits for a woman who wrote me more than a thousand letters constantly telling me of her desire for me, her loneliness, and her desire to share her life with me. So, I bought credits and arranged a phone call which is also costly as hell! When I spoke with her it was as though the person writing me and the person speaking to me over the phone were two different people and completely opposite in their feelings it amazed me! I got my credit card company to reverse the charges, but this has been a pattern. I had paid for phone calls with 4 other women each call costing me at least 140 credits, after buying credits to chat and write letters to these women who had written to me more than a thousand times! The pattern repeats itself over and over again!
I had 2 women promise me they were going to fly to me and could I pick them up from the airport! Each time they came up with a last minute excuse. "My father had a heart attack" "My face broke out in a rash" or " I had 5 tumors removed from my chest" it is not funny but it must be hilarious to these people that they can get away with these lies and make so much money at it! When I informed their customer service about this and that just 3 days after telling me her Dad had a heart attack she was back online again fliritng and asking me if I would bring her a towel if she was in the shower. Is this how a woman would react if her Daddy just had a heart attack? Hell no! Customer service's reply, " we cannot control the woman's response if she changes her mind." What a crock of sh**!
With thousands of complaints about this site at several other sites why hasn't a class action law suit been enacted? How does a unscupulous company like this who advertises all over the internet get away with doing this to so many men? I can't understand this! I have spent more than ten thousand dollars on this site over 3 years like a fool hoping against all hope that I would find at least one honest and real woman, but time and time again I found myself frustrated and humiliated again and again!
Their customer service is a piece of work. Their people are trained to evade the issues and contantly make excuses for the lying actions of the fake profiles instead of even attempting to understand the obvious deception taking place. I told one representative that women were telling me they wanted to fly to my airport when I had not told them which airport was closest to me so I worried about them being stranded. Their first resaction was that they were grown women responsible for their own actions then when I pressed harder they replied then I shouldn't communicate with them anymore! Shouldn't their response have been to get the name of the profile and ban them from the site for lying to the customers and costing them money by scamming them? Nope! They don't give a d**n! This goes to show they know these women are lying, writing fake letters, and probably getting paid to do it too! They claim to have an anti scam policy! What a joke! Let's just call it PLAUSIBLE DENIAL!
These issues I have described to you are just the tip of the iceberg! I could go into much deeper detail. Asiandate is like a black hole that sucks in your money, insults your intelligence, and provides nothing but an illusion! They should be criminally charged for perpetrating a massive fraudulent enterprise! In America, these owners would be jailed and fined!
This company is 100% fake and has and is stealing peoples money as we speak!, they offer a dating service and exchange of information program, using fake picture of women that they have collected, then they have workers who operate a website who pretend to be these women you talk to.
These people work pretending to chat with you as the women in the picture, they offer fake phone call services to exchange information with your supposed date which is not real, they offer paid chat as listed below
This site uses a credit based system, not a monthly membership.
1000 Credits $399.00 (With 1000 credits you can do the following, 1000 minutes of live chat, or 500 minutes of live chat with video, or 170 minutes of CamShare, or send or read 100 emails.)
500 Credits for $249.00
320 Credits $185.00
Features:
Mailing System: You can read and send emails from this section.
Ladies: You can search for ladies, watch videos of them, see ladies who live in the USA, as well as see who is online right now.
Services: In the services you can call women, send them flowers and presents. There is also live chat and cam share available through this section. There is something called "Date A Lady", where you can fly out and meet the Asian girl in person. You can also arrange romance tours where you fly and meet Asian women in introductions provided by AsianDate.com. The cost for the romance tours includes premium hotel accommodation, hospitality center services and an American representative that is available 24/7. The cost for a full tour is $3895.
Customer Service: You can contact customer service through this area.
My Account: The "my account" section enables you to purchase credits, access your profile, change your account info and change your settings or password.
160 Credits for $96.00
80 Credits for $56.00
40 Credits for $30.00
20 Credits for $2.99
Overview
AsianDate.com aka AsianBeauties.net aka OrientBrides.com all redirect people to AsianDate.com. This is a mail order bride service for Western men interested in meeting Asian women.
Right off the bat we were bombarded with chat requests from Asian women, that's the good news. The bad news is that this site uses a credit based system that you can burn through credits very quickly if you don't watch it. You can take a look at the prices above in the "cost" breakdown. We received 5 emails and based on purchasing a thousand credits it would cost us $4 per email to reply back to the women. Sending emails back and forth at $4 per email can add up very quickly.
Chat Messages
When we were logged on the site we received quite a few instant messages. You can chat with women for free and surprisingly the chat messages are not automated on this site. We asked specific questions such as what time it was and we received the right response, so there are real people on this site. You can send about 4 free messages before you are asked to upgrade and purchase credits on the site. The problem we have with the chat messages is that you really don't know who you're talking to. Yes, you see a photograph of an attractive looking Asian girl but is that who you're really talking to?
The chat messages constantly pop up from new girls all the time. As usual you can only send them a few lines and then you need to buy credits to continue. We didn't upload any photos to our profile purposely just to see the kind of response we would get. Even without any photos in our dating profile were were still bombarded with chat requests constantly. This seems a little suspicious, wouldn't the girls want to know who they were sending messages to?
Real Women Or Paid Models?
The problem we have with the chat messages is that you really don't know who you're talking to. Yes, you see a photograph of an attractive looking Asian girl but is that who you're really talking to? Almost all the girls on AsianDate.com do look like models. Obviously we have no way of proving these are actually paid models or just attractive looking Asian girls looking to meet Western men. If you look at the Asian population as a whole, most women in Asia do not look like this attractive. So, this leads us to believe these are models who were paid for the use of their photographs possibly. Below are just 4 of the women who contacted us. Another reason of concern is that our profile for this review had no photos in it. Why would any women be interested in contacting us if they don't know what we look like (see proof of of empty profile below)? Is it possible that they get paid to chat with us and string us along so we burn through credits that much quicker?
Tours
Not only can you chat, email and video chat with women but you can also take romance tours directly to Asian countries such as China and Thailand. The cost for these tours range between $2695.00, all the way up to $3895.00. The question you need to ask yourself is are you actually going to meet someone through these tours, or are you going to spend thousands of dollars and be left wondering what the hell you spend your money on?
Online Reviews
We also went online to read other reviews from members of the site to see what they had to say about this site. Unfortunately we were left wondering if there were any legitimate reviews at all. We did find what seemed to be legit reviews complaining about the service and how it seems to use professional model images (see evidence below). All the positive reviews seemed to be written by people who are not native English speakers. The way the reviews were written it's very easy to see that the reviews are not written by Western men. We personally feel that the majority of positive online reviews that we came across were actually all phony.
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I would like to be part of the settlement in a class action lawsuit returning all the money stolen from customers through this site as i have been scammed out of thousands of dollars its just not right!
Here is my personnal story with www.asiandate.com...
In December 2015 i have discovered that dating site where, at the beginning i wasn't about to subscribe to...I started to receive a lot of letters and got particularly interested by one of the members sending...
After a while seeing that this girl seemed to be really interested on me by keeping on sending me letters almost everyday, i have decided to subscribe to answer her...The site is very expansive for any type of communication but i was so excited to have a chance to find my soulmate that i passed over that problem...we have exchanged letters for about a month when she tells me that she is going to come over in my country to meet me. But finally she built up some excuses and didn't come. She has sent me quiet a few pictures but the pictures did not absolutely looked like it was her on them It could of been her on some of them, some others where looking like they where over photoshoped and i also have received some where it was easy to tell it wasn't her!!!.
After seeing all those pictures and the fact she finally didn't come like she said, i became suspicious but i have decided to keep on playing the game to see how far this would go...
We kept on talking for a while but i could not hide the fact i was suspicious and when she realised i was, she just stopped sending me letters or answering the ones i was sending...
Anyways i kept on talking to her sometimes through the chat where she kept on showing some false interest towards me. After having spent over 500$ on that site i realised it would be better to buy myself a plane ticket
and go to China to find myself a girlfriend. During the preparation of my trip i kept on talking to her sometimes and to put a maximum chances on my side i also started talking to some other girls
from around the place i was about to go to try to find the first one. I knew there was only one on a million chances i could actually find her but i decided to take it at least if i could find the girl to have a little talk with her, have some explanations and try to understand how this business really works...
The girl was supposed to be living in Suzhou wich is about 90 km away from shanghai (half an hour by speed train) so i started talking to one girl from Shanghai, another one also from Suzhou and one from some far away place from Shanghai called Hengyang...
A few days before my take off i have received a letter from the girl saying that when i come to China she would be my guide...Once in Shanghai i decided to try to see the one who was living around and tryied to reach her on the site to tell her i was around. Then i realised the site was not accessible from China...
Chinese government imposes restrictions about internet and a lot of sites are unreachable from there (Facebook, Google, Twitter, Youtube,....) unless you are in Hong Kong wich is apparently the only place in China where there are no restrictions, probably due to the fact that place has been for a while some English colonised place...So i got myself a vpn (it's a programm allowing you to change your ip and makes you able to reach the sites you are not supposed to in China) and got onto the site
The girl was unsure about meeting me because each time i spoke to her i was always on a rush as she said, wich is true due to the amount to pay only for talking a few minutes and i prefered to keep my money
to spend on real meetings...Finally i didn't have enough time to stay anymore in Shanghai and had to move to Suzhou where i wanted to find the principal reason of my coming, (her name is Sophia).
Once arrived in Suzhou i spoke to Sophia to tell her i was around and asked her if she still wanted to meet...She said yes but i am on a business trip
(oh come on first you say when i come to China you will be my guide and you know when i was coming but finally you are not there...). So i told her i am here until the 21 march, here is my adress (postal adress are supposed to go through with letters and i could verify it because i got a rendez vous point with another girl wich i will explain later).
Finally Sophia never showed up and i have left Suzhou a little bit sad because the mission was a failure...
I knew there was a very strong possibility that things would of happened that way but the one who doesn't try doesn't get and anyways i knew this trip would bring me a lot of other good things
so finally there is no loss, only gain when you look at it in a positive way....Like i said earlier to put the maximum chances on my side i have been talking to other girls and there is also one from Hengyang (wich is about 1200km away from Suzhou)
I could speak to that one from Hengyang and could arrange a meeting with her in her city. She seemed very excited to meet me. She gave me the name of a place to meet (in Chinese) and a time also...
A day before the meeting date i took the train to Hengyang (21 hours of train, i had to take a bed otherwise it must be hard, lol) and got on time to my meeting...where the girls DOES! show up but...
The first thing is that she absolutelu doesn't look like on the pictures, she was so beautifull on them and i am in front of a girl wich is not so bad looking but more fat and has a pretty round face.
I could analyse that it was maybe the girl on the pictures but with a lot of work through photoshop because i could find a little comparison spot on one of her tooth that seemed to be the same.
Another thing when we took arrangements for the meeting she tells me: I think we must take a translator for the first time otherwise its going to be hard for us to communicate. I agreed but later i went back on my thought because i remembered i had a translator on my cell phone wich is not accurate but still it would do with a lot of fun between the mistakes. So the next day i went back to her saying that it would not be absolutely needed. Then she tells me well i already have made arrangements with her...oh ok let's do it that way then...When i met her there was the translator wich was also a girl and apparently was one of her classmates. There was also a third girl that had no reason to be there but was...The girl i was meeting looked like she did not really care about me and i have spent more time speaking with the translator than herself!
We went to an expansive restaurant where she commanded a lot of food for all of us and made me pay an expansive bill!!!The translator gave me the impression of working for the site because she was using specific words also used on the site. She was also not translating everything i was saying and when i asked questions about the site and why the girl was not looking like on the pictures she sometimes did not answer the questions and she said: we chinese girls like to transform pictures to make ourselves look more pretty (well then this is not reality then and most of people would not do like me and keep on going but runaway as he sees the girl is not the real one!!!)
At the end of the meeting i could really see this was just a scam because the girl did not show any interest like she was on the site and at the time to say goodbye
i decided to force a hug to see her reaction and i could see she was almost disgusted (and i can tell you i am a very attractive western man!) but she gave me her qq number (it's a chinese kind of messenger).
Probably to play the game a bit and the first evening she has sent me a message but it quickly turned out this way: I was sending messages and she was barely answering,
so i got upset and told her like we say in french her 4 truth (to say all the truth about you) and then she said oh i'm sorry but i don't always have time to answer on this i hope you can understand...
oh yeah bad excuse i'm sorry but when you are interested into someone even only for friendship at least you find a few minutes to answer...
Finally i got back to my home country and a few days later she just erased me from her friendlist...I guess this little story shows how much asiandate is a SCAM,
i was supposed to meet three girls, i lost time for one, the second was a player and a liar and didn't show up, and the last one even if showed up was just there to take my money and have a good meal offered by me for her and her friends. I cannot make sure the translator was part of asiandate but i have the feeling that she might be working for them. Anyways this is a proof that at least some of the profiles (if not all of them) are fakes, wrong pictures and girls lying to you in order to get your money!!! Something else very important i have to say is when i was still in my country before the trip, when i realised all this was probably just scamming i got upset on the site and i have tryied to know more about them and wanted to have some sort of revenge so with the ip (if not fake) i could understand that the site is based either in Hong Kong because it's the only place where it is itself reachable in China, either in Malaysia because that is what the IP was saying
for a while i was so upset that i have decided to lauch a multiple DDos attack against them and guess what happened? a few minutes after the attack some hacker from malaysia got onto my mailbox (hotmail told me themselves the attempt was coming from malaysia (weird isn't it?)) and to hack a mailbox it takes at least 5 to 10 minutes so i am sure the cookies from the sites gives them all informations about you and what you type!!! The hacker probably wanted to see if the attack was coming from one of their own members upset by their scamming!
In this story there are a lot of precisions missing but it would take ages if i would put all of the story on so i kind of compressed and put the most important things about it.
Anyways, thank you for reading and eventually possible support...We must stop this business, So many men have lost a lot of money, so many hearts where played with and got sometimes broken, only for some bastards with no heart, no conscious, no principles to drive around in a porshe and probably f**k some hookers with the money!!!
Don't you think it's time to stop this? I would be happy and gratefull if some members of Anonymous could read this letter and decide to launch massive attacks around their firewalls to turn down forever their f**king servers. That is the thing to do...
There is no court that will stop them and even if there was one, they have enough money to pay and start it again, we must discourage them by showing 1°) they have lost all credibility and the whole world knows about them and what they are doing
2°) take their servers down for good. There are plenty of ways for making money without rubbing poor heart-broken and lonely people with at the same time destroying their hope. Have you ever thought some might have suicided by having been lyied by some girl they where
hoping so much onto? What they do is criminal acting of the worst kind.
The only advice i can give is if you feel attracted by Chinese or any other type of oriental ladies, learn chinese or whatever their language is, get yourself a plane ticket and fly there to find your soulmate! or at least go to some other site, there are other sites where ladies speak english and if not we have translators that can help and even if not accurate enough you will both have a good time laughing while you learn out of each other!!!
I apologise for any mistakes made in the letter but english is not my first language...
A couple of weeks ago, after getting a email from a girl on the AsianDate.com, saying she was on her way here, I tried to get on line to say no to her that I was not ready yet and had to get to know her first! I had too pay for credits to even try, that lasted only a few words, forcing me to have to purchase more! $60 later I gave it up!
When I met a few wemen I liked, and tried to send them my phone number and emailaddress, they all three said it was blocked. When they sent me thiers the same happened.
I realized then that is what this service does. They block each member thier phone numbers and email address, ententually to keep two hearts getting together, just so that those who are one the site to be real with a guy or woman, has too keep spending money for thier service, in which either way does not do the man or woman any good at any point or time!
When you fisrt join the site, it has you to check the only box they have to check to have you fee automatically deducted from your bank account, and I found that I had to go in my account and change it to not to be automatically deducted!
I as well found that once you run out of credits, and go to purchase more, I discovered from the start that they automatically have the 1000 credits checked hoping that you do not notice and not change it, that cost $390 some.
This site and the owner him self needs to be prossicuted and imprissoned for frauding his and or her customers and made to return his customers money right from the start of his illeagal biusness!
Where I seen and detected, that some of the girls that got on line to talk was obviousely working for this site and helping them scam, I as well found that some of them was not and was being scammed just like me. And all I was trying to do is let some girl know to not come here that I barely know her! But I would not turn her away from my door if she did!
This site and plus the AnastasiaDate.com needs to be shut down and the owners put in prison and all the good people they scammed re-embursed and compensated!
You can let the owner know it was I who filed the complaint and it is I who is willing to help burn his and or her rear-ends!
I do not play these games and I do not like nor will tollerate it be done to me or anyone other!
No site has the legal right to block email address and phone numbers to keep two hearts that wishes to possably get together, from being able to do so!